I sometimes wonder why people get so worried about their wedding. It is only one day and if the views are important to you, which of course they should be, then that promise you make should be more important than how you look, what the food is like, who is there etc. It makes me wonder, when people go on about choosing wedding dress designers, the best venue, a good florist etc. I do wonder whether they start to lose sight of what the day is actually about and how it should just be a vow between a couple that they will stay together for life. It seems like many people just see it as an opportunity to have a good party and see friends and relatives and almost forget what it is all about and why they are celebrating in the first place. I often think that the obsession with the bride dress, venue, guest list, events before and after and each small detail down to each wedding flower seems extremely obsessive. I do think that worrying about each thing will mean that it is easier to see the imperfections rather than just enjoy the day for the important occasion that it really is.

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